All We Can Drink and Make Friend Can Come Alone Party in Shinjuku

Making friends in Shinjuku is easier than you think. This Friday night party in Tokyo’s Shinjuku area is built for solo visitors who want conversation without the usual awkward bar-starting routine, with an international crowd, free-flow drinks, and structured icebreakers. Expect to meet Japanese and other international guests, try a bit of language exchange, and keep things moving for about 2.5 hours starting at 7:30 PM.

I especially like the color wristband system for breaking the ice fast, so you have an easy reason to talk beyond small talk. I also like the mix of unlimited drinks (19:30–22:00) and games like Uno and Jenga, which turns a stiff meet-and-greet into something you actually do together.

One thing to consider: it’s a standing-style party. If you need a lot of seated downtime, this may feel like more “night activity” than “casual hangout.”

Key Points at a Glance

• Wristband colors help you find people with similar intentions (fun time, language friends, singles, same gender, or other goals)
• Unlimited drinks from 19:30 to 22:00 make the $70 price feel more reasonable than a typical Tokyo bar crawl
• Games like Uno and Jenga give the conversation a structure, not just a room full of polite strangers
• International crowd + Japanese locals means you’re practicing language while meeting real people
• EXBAR TOKYO plus is set up for mingling, so you’re not stuck waiting for someone to talk to you
• Reviews highlight friendly, engaging staff and an atmosphere that feels easy to join

Shinjuku Solo Meetup: Built for Talking, Not Waiting

Tokyo nightlife can be intimidating when you’re by yourself. That’s why I like this kind of setup: you don’t have to invent a social plan at the start. You arrive, you get pulled into the flow, and you’re given small, friendly reasons to talk to strangers. In Shinjuku, where it’s easy to get swept into your own head while looking for a bar, this party gives you a clear social lane.

The experience is clearly aimed at people who want a night out with company. It’s marketed as a come-alone party, and the format matches that promise. You’re not just sitting across from someone hoping they’ll carry the conversation. You’ll do activities together, and you’ll have a chance to practice Japanese in real time rather than memorizing phrases that never come up.

What makes it especially workable is the combination of structure and freedom. Games like Uno and Jenga are structured enough to get you talking quickly, but the crowd is large enough that you can shift conversations as the night goes on. Many people come from Japan and around the world, so you get a mix of language styles and life stories.

EXBAR TOKYO plus: The Venue Style That Keeps Things Moving

The party takes place at EXBAR TOKYO plus, and the vibe is more about mingling than lounging. The event is described as a standing-style setup, which matters for your expectations. You’ll likely spend a good chunk of time on your feet, moving around to join groups, rotate conversations, and jump into games when the host calls people in.

That standing format is exactly why it works for solo travelers. Seated events can turn into a slow “who should I talk to” loop. Standing events push you to circulate, even if you’re a bit shy at first. If you can handle being upright for a couple hours, you’ll probably find the atmosphere refreshing.

You also need to know the meeting window: it runs on Fridays from 7:30 PM to 10:00 PM. That’s a sweet spot in Tokyo. It’s late enough for the nightlife energy, but early enough that you’re not deciding the next train home in a haze.

And since it’s at a real Tokyo bar venue, you get the authentic feel of Shinjuku without the extra pressure of ordering, negotiating entry rules, or trying to decode everyone’s mood. You’re not “performing” social confidence the whole time. The event does some of the heavy lifting.

Wristbands, Intentions, and the Quick-Start Conversation Hack

One of the most useful parts is the wristband system. Instead of hoping your body language communicates I’m friendly, you’re literally given a color-based conversation cue. You pick a wristband color, then you look for other people wearing the same shade.

The examples listed for wristband colors include:

• Orange: for fun time
• Green: language friends
• Pink: single
• Yellow: talk with same gender
• Blue: others (your purpose)

This is a simple trick, but it makes a big difference. It reduces the first-10-minutes awkwardness that solo travelers usually hit. You don’t have to explain why you’re here from scratch. You can start with a shared purpose and go from there—especially if you’re trying to practice Japanese or meet people with a similar vibe.

It also makes the night feel more organized. The staff and hosts can guide people by color, which means you’re more likely to meet multiple groups rather than getting stuck with the first cluster you happen to talk to. In reviews, people highlight the ease of making friends and the sense that the format keeps things going rather than slowing down.

If you’re the type who likes a target—like practicing a certain language goal or meeting people who want similar conversation—this system helps you steer the night.

Unlimited Drinks (19:30–22:00): How the Price Can Actually Make Sense

At $70 per person, it’s not “cheap,” but it’s also not random. The key value point is that the party includes all fees and taxes, and you get alcoholic beverages included as an all-you-can-drink window from 19:30 to 22:00. That time-bound unlimited drink setup is important. You’re not paying extra as you go. You know the structure from the start.

Tokyo bar hopping can be expensive fast, especially if you’re buying drinks one at a time while also trying to pay for cover charges, snacks, and the cost of not staying long somewhere. Here, your drink costs are wrapped into the ticket price for a specific block of time, which makes the math easier.

That said, I’d treat it like a party ticket, not a free-for-all. You’ll still want to pace yourself and be aware of how quickly alcohol can change your social comfort level. The event’s social design matters most early in the night, when you’ll be clearer and more able to join games and conversations.

Reviews also mention the drinks felt good value and the drinks tasted good. I won’t promise quality beyond what’s included, but those comments line up with why this experience keeps scoring extremely high: people show up wanting to meet others, not just drink.

Games Like Uno and Jenga: The Social Engine Behind the Fun

The event uses games as an icebreaker, and that’s not a small detail. Games like Uno and Jenga do two jobs at once:

1) They give you an easy shared activity.

2) They lower the pressure to be interesting.

If you don’t share a language perfectly yet, playing a game can still work because the rules create a common ground. People can demonstrate what to do, laugh when something goes wrong, and reset the conversation without it turning into an awkward language gap moment.

It also helps mixed-language groups move past the first question stage. Instead of only talking about where you’re from and what you do, you’re building mini-team moments. That’s where friendships usually start—small, low-stakes experiences that make you feel comfortable with the people beside you.

One review specifically praised how organized and engaging the event felt from start to finish, and noted that interactive activities made it easier to connect. Another review mentioned a positive mood and encouraging staff, with a relaxed atmosphere that makes it simpler to talk.

And if you’re curious about the age mix: one review mentioned many people being in their 30s that day. It’s not a rule, but it suggests the crowd can skew toward young-to-middle adults rather than being only students or only older partygoers.

Timing, Entry, and Getting There Without a Stress Spiral

This experience is scheduled on Fridays from 7:30 PM to 10:00 PM, and the duration is listed as approximately 2 hours 30 minutes. That consistency makes planning easier. You can fit it into a Shinjuku evening without guessing how long it’ll run.

You’ll also use a mobile ticket. That’s handy in Tokyo where you’re bouncing between places. You don’t have to manage printed papers while also trying to find the entrance in a busy nightlife area.

It’s near public transportation, which matters a lot in Shinjuku. Even when you’re familiar with Tokyo trains, nightlife areas can add a little confusion—stairs, multiple exits, side streets full of neon. “Near public transportation” is the kind of detail that quietly saves your evening.

One thing not included: private transportation. That’s normal for Tokyo tours, but it does mean you should plan your own route to the venue. If you’re staying near major stations, you’ll be fine. If you’re far out, just check your commute time so you don’t rush.

Who This Party Suits Best (And Who Might Prefer Something Else)

If you’re traveling solo and want to meet people fast, this is one of those events that fits you well. The whole design is about breaking the ice without you having to do awkward “hello, can I join?” gymnastics at a bar.

It’s also a strong match if you want language exchange in a real-life setting. The wristband options include language friends, and the crowd includes both Japanese and international participants. That means you can practice Japanese with people who are already motivated to talk, not just ordering a drink and moving on.

You’ll also likely enjoy it if you’re okay with a standing party atmosphere. The point is mingling, moving, and joining games. If you want a quiet, sit-down dinner conversation, this probably won’t be your ideal format.

Finally, if you’re coming specifically to connect with people who share a purpose—fun, language, dating-related (single), same-gender conversation, or other goals—the wristbands make it easier to find your lane quickly.

Staff, Energy, and the Small Details That Matter

The best part about high-rated social events is whether they feel human. In the reviews, staff are described as friendly and helpful, and the overall event flow is said to run smoothly.

One review highlighted a host named Quyn, praising them as amazing and thanking them for the event. That kind of feedback matters because it suggests you’re not left alone with a wristband and a vague schedule. Someone is guiding the interaction so it stays fun and not random.

Also, the crowd is described as international and relaxed, which is a nice word for how these nights can feel. You want an environment where people are open to meeting others without being too cool to interact.

If you’re the type who worries about being judged for your Japanese level, this event structure can help. You’re not judged for speaking. You’re pulled into activities where effort and laughter count more than grammar.

Value Check: Is $70 Worth It for This Shinjuku Night?

For a solo night out in Tokyo, $70 can be either a bargain or a splurge, depending on what’s included. Here, the big value driver is the all-you-can-drink window tied to the ticket price, plus the organized social activities.

You’re paying for three things:

• Time with a guided group night (2.5 hours)
• Drinks included during a set window (19:30–22:00)
• Built-in ways to meet people (wristbands and games)

That’s very different from walking into a random bar. In a random bar, your social cost is high. You pay in awkwardness. You pay in uncertainty. Here, you pay in a ticket, and the event helps handle the social friction.

If you show up in a good mood and actually join the games, you’ll likely get more out of it than the same amount of money spent drifting from drink to drink alone.

The only reason I’d hesitate is the standing-style format. If your ideal evening includes sitting, you’ll feel the difference.

Should You Book This Shinjuku Friend-Making Party?

I’d book it if you want a structured way to meet people in Shinjuku on a Friday night, especially if you’re solo and you don’t want to spend your evening “figuring out social life” from scratch. The wristbands remove stress. The games keep things lively in a good way. And the drink window gives the ticket a clear value anchor.

I wouldn’t book it if you’re looking for a quiet, seated activity or if you prefer to control every minute of conversation yourself without event prompts. Also, if standing for a couple hours will make you miserable, consider a different type of outing.

If you’re open, friendly, and game to talk, this is the kind of experience that can turn a Tokyo night from lonely to memorable in a very practical way.

FAQ

Is this party designed for solo travelers?

Yes. It’s specifically described as ideal for solo visitors to Tokyo, with an international crowd and games that help break the ice.

Where does the party take place?

The party is at EXBAR TOKYO plus.

What time does the experience run on Fridays?

It runs from 7:30 PM to 10:00 PM.

Are drinks included in the price?

Yes. Alcoholic beverages are included as all-you-can-drink during 19:30–22:00.

How much does it cost?

The price is $70.00 per person.

What’s the ticket like?

You receive a mobile ticket.

Is private transportation included?

No. Private transportation is not included.

Can I get a refund if I cancel?

Yes. Free cancellation is available up to 24 hours in advance of the experience start time for a full refund.